Being a single adult child is difficult for me. Deciphering the boundary lines of family relationships as I venture further and further into adulthood is becoming more perplexing. For instance; is it appropriate to spend holidays away from family members, and vacation with friends instead?Should I disclose details about my friendships and dating relationships to my parents and siblings? Who will I turn to for advice about my career- friends or family, or both? When something does go awry in my family, how do I address the issue in a loving way without hurting feelings? Is it even possible to avoid hurt feelings, as boundaries are continually defined and redefined?
I think ultimately, I want my family to feel loved by me, no matter the answers to the questions above. In figuring out how it looks in my life, I don't want to alienate anyone or myself for that matter.
Not many people follow my blog, so I am not exactly sure who might have input. Words of wisdom are welcomed though!
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